Wedding Day Details
The Ceremony
Morningside Inn
8:00 AM
Bharat Starts
9:15 AM
Grooms Entrance & Ceremony Starts
11:30 AM
Ceremony Ends
11:30 AM - 01:30 PM
Light Snacks - Morning Portion Ends
1:30 PM - 5 PM
Break
The Ceremony
Martin’s Valley Mansion
5:00 PM
Cocktail Hour
6:00 PM
Receptions Starts
6:00 - 7:00 PM
Entrance, Cake Cutting, Speeches
7:00 - 8:40 PM
Dinner
8:40 - 11:00 PM
Partay!
Ceremony Attire
We want all of our loved ones to feel comfortable, confident, and ready to celebrate! Because we are blessed with a beautifully diverse set of family and friends, we want to make things as easy as possible for those who have never attended a Hindu wedding before.
While there is no required dress code, we encourage all guests to embrace the occasion and try a traditional Indian outfit if you'd like—it’s a wonderful opportunity you may never get again! To help you plan, we’ve shared some style inspiration, typical attire breakdowns, and a few of our favorite online shops below.
LADIES
COLOR PALETTE: We invite all guests to come dressed in their favorite attire and to participate in our fall-themed ceremony, which has a color palette of forest green, wine red, gold, and cream.
BRIDE & GROOM ATTIRE: That’s a surprise! However, we can tell you it will feature red, gold, cream, and white. So please keep that in mind when choosing your outfits.
TRADITIONAL CEREMONY OUTFITS FOR WOMEN:
Lehenga: A gorgeous three-piece outfit made up of a blouse, floor-length skirt, and a matching scarf (dupatta).
Sari / Saree: The classic, timeless option consisting of an elegantly draped fabric over a blouse and petticoat. (Pro-tip: look for "ready-to-wear" or pre-stitched saris online to skip the complex wrapping!)
Shalwar Kameez: A classic, comfortable three-piece suit consisting of a tunic-style top (kameez), loose-fitting trousers that taper beautifully at the ankle (shalwar), and a matching scarf (dupatta). For simplicity, you may see variations of this outfit with the names Palazzo, Anarkali, Churidar, Gharara, Sharara, Punjabi Suit. The main thing to know is that all of these is some variation of a long blouse, pants, and a shawl (dupatta)
CEREMONY STYLING GUIDE:
A Sacred Event: Please keep in mind that the Hindu wedding ceremony is a sacred religious event, so we want to find a balance between sharp, celebratory fashion and respectful attire.
For Women: Sleeveless tops, stylish dress straps, and the standard midriff-baring styles for lehengas and saris are perfectly acceptable. Please leave mini-skirts, thigh-high slits, extremely low cut, and see-through material for different occasions.
For Men: Classic Western suits, blazers with dress trousers, or traditional Indian sets are all perfectly appropriate and wonderful. Ties are completely optional
Shawls, Sweaters, and Jackets: Our beautiful venue sits on 300 acres of softly rolling hills and two scenic lakes, making for a stunning backdrop of Maryland fall foliage. Because our morning ceremony will be outdoors, the weather may be quite brisk. We will provide heaters and a comfortable indoor viewing option, but we highly recommend bringing a warm layer or cold-weather covering to ensure you stay cozy during the celebration!
Where to shop? The reality is that shopping for Indian attire in the US, especially for women, is quite expensive. That said, if you live in Florida, Canada, New York, or New Jersey and prefer trying a few outfits on, there are plenty of options in those places, and maybe you’ll even score some great deals in between fall Navratri (October) and Diwali (Nov 8). That said, shopping online is a great alternative as long as you order about 1.5 months in advance (longer for custom measurements). If you’d like to explore shopping online, here are links to our favorite sites:
Finally, if you are in the DC, Virginia, or Maryland area and would like help in finding the perfect outfit, my friends from Vibe & Vogue and stylist extraordinaire Indy Jabble from Beyond the Edit are happy to assist. You can reach them at
TRADITIONAL CEREMONY OUTFITS FOR MEN
Kurta Pajama: A comfortable, classic pairing featuring a lightweight, knee-length tunic top (kurta) worn over straight-leg drawstring trousers (pajama). It’s perfect for staying cool and moving easily.
Sherwani: This is a structured, button-up coat-like jacket that hits around the knee, typically featuring a high collar and intricate embroidery. It is worn over fitted trousers.
Achkan: A refined, fitted knee-length jacket with a mandarin collar, offering a sleek, sophisticated silhouette in diverse colors and fabrics.
Reception Attire
Once the nuptials have been said and we’ve walked around that infamous holy fire, it’s time to help us celebrate this next amazing chapter of our lives! We invite all of our loved ones to get dolled up like they never have before. Life is short, and these days there are too few opportunities to truly dress up. So, ladies, grab those gowns, and men, grab your bow ties—we’re going black tie!
While again not required, we encourage everyone to come in black-tie attire. In case you are wondering, the vibe is grown and sexy, and our color palette focuses on the sophistication of James Bond's classic black-and-white, paired with the vibrant Rosa Corsa red of Ferrari.
Acommodation
We have reserved a block of rooms at the following two hotels under the name Ramdass/Sookdeo Wedding. Please call the hotels directly to reserve your room at a discounted rate.
We encourage all of our guests to stay where they are most comfortable. If you choose to book your own hotel or an Airbnb, we highly recommend staying close to the reception venue (Martin’s Valley Mansion). We want everyone to remain safe after a night of celebrating
Your presence is eagerly awaited at our celebration!
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